Should I lose my virginity to an escort?

I'm 19 and a virgin....i pretty much suck at talking to girls the worst out of anyone I know. I've had girls talk to me first or give ME THEIR phone number without me trying and still no luck. been clubbing , etc. still no luck. I dnt know how to giv off playfulness or flirting that girls like , always nervous around females, never be myself around them uhh what else, boring around girls and talk to them like their an adult...evn my nerdiest of friends have gotten laid. so lately iv been thinking of hiring an escort cause I know ill nevr get the confidence to get a girl to f*ck me for free and I'm tired of always saying I'm a virgin whenevr I meet people. and maybe If I jus hav sex ill kno wat I'm missing and try harder? should I jus pay an escort and get it over with or wait?